{"id":110955,"date":"2022-03-23T11:27:49","date_gmt":"2022-03-23T17:27:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/?p=110955"},"modified":"2022-03-23T18:36:58","modified_gmt":"2022-03-24T00:36:58","slug":"shh-its-a-secret","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/?p=110955","title":{"rendered":"Shh, It\u2019s a Secret"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-1545664804358300\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display: block; text-align: center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1545664804358300\" data-ad-slot=\"8616314829\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/?p=110955\" rel=\"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/?p=110955\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-110956 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/20121217-sfs-logo-600x250-1-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/20121217-sfs-logo-600x250-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/20121217-sfs-logo-600x250-1.jpg 730w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>By Joyce Davis<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Funerals are tough for most people. To lose a loved one is a hard place to be for anyone. I find even within the family each person deals with it differently.<\/p>\n<p>My family has an extra added piece of heartache to it. #MeToo is not just for me alone. Each time I go to a funeral I find out more family secrets of rape and molestation. In this generation of #TimesUp people are speaking out and one person in my family has an article against him so terrible it makes me cringe and I have another relative who was arrested recently for rape. I know for a fact that the same brother who molested me molested him as well. I know that we all went to my father and told him the truth and he believed the person who molested us.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I write this not to air dirty family secrets but I know my family is not the only family out there who keeps secrets. What is to be done? Seriously, do you turn in a whole family? Who wants to be a narc on the whole family?<\/p>\n<p>My mom took us out of the situation so I don\u2019t know what is going on now but I know that tigers don\u2019t change their stripes. Pedophiles don\u2019t decide one day I had enough. I worry about the secrets that kill futures.<\/p>\n<p>Today we listen more to victims but do we listen enough? I can\u2019t say. I will say if ever you see something, call it out. At the very least make those in the family aware.<\/p>\n<p>Funerals are triggering when there are family secrets. Little by little I expose what I know. They may stop inviting me all together. Shh. It\u2019s a secret.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Joyce Davis Funerals are tough for most people. To lose a loved one is a hard place to be for anyone. I find even within the family each person deals with it differently. My family has an extra added piece of heartache to it. #MeToo is not just for me alone. 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