{"id":95503,"date":"2020-10-31T01:21:55","date_gmt":"2020-10-31T06:21:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/?p=95503"},"modified":"2020-10-31T01:22:18","modified_gmt":"2020-10-31T06:22:18","slug":"teacher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/?p=95503","title":{"rendered":"Teacher&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\">[AdSense-A]<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/?p=95503\" rel=\"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/?p=95503\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-95504 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/4efi7l-3-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/4efi7l-3-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/4efi7l-3.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/><\/a>By Bethany \u201cBST2\u201d Armstrong<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThese Kids Ain\u2019t Your Friends\u201d I hear this phrase with disturbing regularity, I want to ask why they think that is the aim? Do I look desperately friendless? Do I appear to be a predator? Why do you care so much about teacher relationships with students when you don\u2019t care if these kids are scared to sleep at night or are juggling their 12 month old sibling during school hours while mom is at work and dad is dead?<\/p>\n<p>How do you respectfully say \u201cfuck you\u201d to an inferior superior? <!--more--><\/p>\n<p>My aim is never to \u201cmake friends\u201d. I want to help. I want to listen. I want to hear. I want to make certain that they know that someone believes in them and sees their beauty. I want to put bridges in place for them to overcome their trauma and\/or their disability.<br \/>\nTonight, I went to 5 different stores looking for candy corn. Why? One of my students, a precious young man, mentioned in passing that he hadn\u2019t had candy corn in years. The boy was getting candy corn if I had to figure out how to make it myself. Thankfully, I didn\u2019t have to\u2026. I only have a microwave to work with currently.<\/p>\n<p>Tomorrow, when he tastes candy corn again, his face will light up. He will feel heard. He will know I care. He will not call me friend though. Mizz A or Ma\u2019am the only things he calls me.<\/p>\n<p>I do not provide friendship; I provide an ear. I am not their buddy; I am their champion. I am the ringmaster, the safety net, and the cheering crowd in the circus of education. I want nothing more than to see them soar. Friend is superfluous. Teacher is fundamental.<\/p>\n<p>[si-contact-form form=&#8217;2&#8242;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[AdSense-A] By Bethany \u201cBST2\u201d Armstrong \u201cThese Kids Ain\u2019t Your Friends\u201d I hear this phrase with disturbing regularity, I want to ask why they think that is the aim? Do I look desperately friendless? Do I appear to be a predator? Why do you care so much about teacher relationships with students when you don\u2019t care [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[8553],"class_list":["post-95503","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-boxing-news","tag-teacher"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95503","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=95503"}],"version-history":[{"count":-3,"href":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95503\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=95503"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=95503"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ringsidereport.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=95503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}