By Lisa Tafoya

This isn’t something I often share. It’s not a story I’m proud of and is something I’ve tried very hard to push down to the deep, dark places of my heart and mind because of the pain it causes. However, the most recent legislation in Texas that took effect on September 1st has given me the incentive and the courage to speak. As a mother, as a teacher, as someone who knows what it is to have to choose one life over another, the time has come to stand up and make my voice heard.

My first daughter was born late December of 2001. I was a single mother, had decided to go back to college when I became pregnant with her, and living with my amazing mom because my daughter’s father kicked me out when my pregnancy was realized. At this point abortion wasn’t an option. My grandmother told me “Hita, everything is going to be ok. You can come here if you need.” I felt safe and loved. My mom, despite being upset at the situation, cried when we found out I was having a girl, and spoiled her rotten. This child never lacked for anything and has been loved beyond reason.